All birthdays are special when it comes to your kiddos, but three is a truly monumental birthday. You are ending the toddler phase with the third birthday, and that is certainly something to celebrate. Those terrible two are going bye-bye, and your toddler is about to become a preschooler. A three-year-old birthday party is probably the first one your little guy or gal will be inviting some friends of their own.
Kiddos love birthday parties, especially when all the gifts have their names on them. Of course, you want to throw a party your child and his or her friends will totally enjoy without making you crazy. Don’t start stressing already. There are lots of birthday party ideas to make your little one’s special day amazing while keeping your stress level to a minimum.
How to throw a stress-free third birthday party
Throwing a birthday bash for your soon-to-be three-year-old isn’t as difficult as it sounds. There really is a one rule to stick to when it comes to birthday party ideas for your almost preschooler. Keep it simple. When it comes to putting together birthday party ideas for a three-year-old birthday party, it’s best to keep the theme and everything associated with the birthday celebration uncomplicated.
Since most of the guests will be 2- and 3-year-olds, it’s best to stick to the basics whether you decide to hold the party at home or at a venue. You want to avoid an overwhelming atmosphere that will eventually lead to tantrums and meltdowns. Now, don’t start stressing already. We’ve got your party checklist on hosting a birthday celebration for your soon-to-be preschooler that is When it comes to birthday party ideas for soon-to-be 3-year-olds, it’s best not to have the theme and the activities be too complicated. With preschoolers, stick to party basics. Here’s how to throw a 3-year-old birthday party that is high on fun and low on stress.
Short and sweet
Unlike tween and teens, three-year-olds have an extremely limited attention span. When hosting a party for the toddler and soon-to-be-three set, keep it short. Ninety minutes is ideal for a preschool birthday party. The time frame allows for activities, food, and cake. Anything longer and you’re heading into the meltdown zone.
Timing is everything
Most, if not all, of the party guests, still nap. So, it is important to choose a time of the day when the attendees are well-rested. Too late in the day or too close to that all-essential afternoon naptime and you’ll have very cranky party guests. If you’re including food, try for a late morning or early afternoon party time if possible. Avoid evening parties for toddlers and preschoolers.
How many guests?
If the invitations are handed out in school, most preschools require the entire class be invited. Of course, it is tempting to include your child’s whole class. At this young age, large parties can be overwhelming for the guest of honor, and three-year-olds won’t remember what party they were invited to, anyway.
A better idea is to keep the guest list small and include the children your little one plays with on a regular basis. If you invite all the kids from school, playgroup, soccer, and dance, the birthday party will most certainly get a little wild and pricey. Five to eight is an ideal number of invites. Ten should be the max at this age.
Kid-friendly menu
A lot of three-year-olds are picky eaters. A birthday party is not the time to experiment with new recipes or fancy desserts. Preschoolers like familiar foods, and they base eating decisions on how things look and smell. For the party menu, stick to foods young children typically like and downsize the portions.
Pizza is a party staple, but you do have wiggle room here. Chicken fingers, grilled cheese, and tater tots are usually hits, too. If you want healthier options, try fruits like strawberries, blueberries, clementines, and watermelon. Before you decide on a menu, find out if any of the party guests have food allergies. Cupcakes are easier for little ones to eat than cake slices. Ice cream is a preschooler favorite too. Think ice cream bar with toppings like sprinkles and chocolate chips. If you do an ice cream bar, don’t overwhelm with topping choices. The keep it simple rule applies to food too.
Where to hold the party
Finding a party place to host the celebration can be more expensive in the long run, but it saves on a lot of the preparation time and anxiety for you. Most party places provide the food and entertainment. Some even include desserts, and you will get people to keep the children occupied.
For a budget-friendly option, check local parks. Usually, you can rent a park pavilion for a nominal fee, and it comes with a built-in playground. If you want to hold the party at home and have the space, go for it. Outside is best because you don’t want a group of three-year-olds running through the house. For weather worries, rent a tent ahead of time so you won’t stress.
Thrilling theme
Picking the party theme is always a lot of fun, and thanks to the internet, it’s a snap to find birthday party ideas for decorations, favors, and tableware. Popular three-year-old party themes usually revolve around bugs, pirates, princesses, dinosaurs, mermaids, unicorns, fire trucks, tea parties, and superheroes. Disney is always a can’t-miss theme.
Keep activities structured
Just like preschool, parties for young children need structure to avoid the chaotic scene of kids just running around. If you are having a party at a bounce place or gym, the timing of the party is already taken care of, though it never hurts to have a picture book on hand for when the food is being served. For home parties, plan short activities to make the party fun and keep it structured. Figure 45 minutes to an hour of activities followed by food, cake, and goodie bags.
Sponge painting, a scavenger hunt, an obstacle course, and bubble-making are simple backyard activities kids love. You can also plan a combination of activities and place kids in a small group with an adult leader. Have them rotate around with about 15 minutes at each activity. Conclude by having all the kids gather for a read-aloud. Books are a great way to settle the group down before moving to the food. It also gives the hosts a chance to serve the food while the little ones are occupied.
Have extra hands on deck
Unless you’re a preschool teacher, it can be hard to manage a party full of 2- and 3-year-olds on your own, especially in your home. Even if you’re holding the party in a venue, you’re usually only assigned one party helper. Don’t assume parents are going to jump in and lend a hand when everyone needs their juice opened at the same time.
Many parents use toddler and preschool birthday parties as an opportunity to socialize. Instead of running around, invite extra hands to help. Godparents, aunts, and uncles, along with besties, can always be called upon to man a craft table at the birthday party. You can also put older siblings to work with setup, cleanup, and running activities. It’s also a good idea to have an adult at the party in charge of taking photographs.
Goodie bags to go
A lot of parents stress about those goodie bags. Don’t. It’s not necessary to make those elaborate goodie bags you see on Pinterest and Instagram unless you want to and have the time. Toddlers will certainly enjoy getting a fun goodie bag on the way out, but soon forget about what was inside. Don’t go to the added expense of making up pricey goodie bags, because odds are, most of it ends up in the trash. Sad to say, but parents know it’s true. Instead, keep goodie bags simple, like the party, and with something kids will use or eat.
Party planning wrap-up
Putting together and hosting a party for your soon-to-be three-year-old should be fun. Don’t sweat the small stuff, as the saying goes. Keep the party simple and structured, and don’t worry too much about the adult guests. Most parents want to see their kiddos have a blast and aren’t concerned about being entertained themselves. They enjoy the time to chat with other adults. Make sure parents stick around, though. The age of three is a little young for a drop-and-go party. Don’t forget to take time during the party to enjoy watching your birthday guy or gal have fun celebrating turning three.
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