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If you are a military family, you know the hardships that can come up when separated from your person for any length of time. From not knowing how to get ahold of your loved one to not knowing how to deal with things after your person is deployed, there are so many things thrown at you that need to be navigated. Thankfully, technology can be helpful in these kinds of situations.

There are so many apps specifically created to uplift military families and guide them through the unique circumstances they deal with on a daily basis. Whether you are on base with your loved one or at home while they are overseas, these military apps for families are there to help.

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Kovii

  • Free app
  • Great for a video call or text chat
  • Lets people know if you are available
  • Lets people know what you feel like chatting about
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It can be tough to find a regular time to talk when your loved one is in another time zone or another country. Kovii makes the times you do get to talk a little easier. You can let others know when you want to talk, and even what you feel like talking about. You can let only certain people see you are available if there’s only one person you were hoping to catch.

Hero Care

  • Free app
  • Available in English and Spanish
  • For military members and their family members

Hero Care is an app by American Red Cross to help military families be able to deal with the less than fun things that come up when a loved one is away on duty. If there is an emergency at home this app can help get the word to them. It will alert the military person’s commander and request military leave. Though that has to be approved by the commander, at least you can submit a request 24 hours a day, any day of the year.

There are also resources for family members such as mental health help, help with dealing with deployment, and career help.

Sandboxx

  • Free app (mail postage still applies)
  • Created by veterans
  • Easiest way to send letters

Sandboxx was originally for military service personnel to stay connected with each other. Providing that internal support is extremely important for the military lifestyle. But now you can also send mail to your loved ones cheaper than going to the post office. You can take pictures of your letters and pictures and the app will send a snail mail version for you. You can even use it to plan your next visit to the base.

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United Through Reading

  • Free app
  • For active military and veterans
  • Access to book library

Learning about the United Through Reading app made us tear up a bit. If you are or know someone who is away on duty and has kids, you have to have this app. When you can’t make it for storytime, you can still be there in spirit. This app allows you to pick a story and record yourself reading it. Then you send it through the app to that little one waiting to be tucked into bed. Never miss a goodnight storytime session again with this app.

Sesame Street for Military Families

  • Free app
  • Available in English and Spanish
  • Great parental and child guide

Sesame Street for Military Families is there for your family the way the show has always been there for all of us. If you are a service family struggling with talking about grief, deployment, or an injury, this app can walk your family through those tough times. It uses storybooks, guides, and videos to explain the harder stuff that kids may struggle with. This is the perfect app to help children deal with their feelings about being away from a parent on duty.

Military Discounts

  • Free app
  • Find stores that offer military discounts
  • Save your favorite stores
  • Filter out by military requirements

We all love a discount or coupon. With money management more important than ever these days, Military Discounts will be a great asset to you. Whether you are current military or retired, you and your family can use the discounts. Restaurants, shops, services, and more are on this app. You can search by whatever category you want and save all of your favorites for a faster checkout. Seriously, we were surprised by the number of places that offer a military discount.

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MyBaseGuide

  • Free app
  • Family sharing function up to six family members
  • Acts as a guide, directory, map, and more

MyBaseGuide is an app with one of the most comprehensive coverages of base information. Whether your person is in the Marine Corps, Navy, Army, Coast Guard, or Air Force, this app has all of the valuable information synced up. Use this to find a local dentist, school, employment, and whatever events and news is happening right on base.

We hope that these apps will make military life just a bit easier. Having a family can be challenging. Having a family with kids while one partner is away for extended periods of time is a whole other animal. That’s why you should take advantage of all of the support you can get out there. Find the help you need for yourself and your family while serving your country with these military family-friendly apps.

Do men get paternity leave? Here’s what you need to know
We know women take time off for having a baby, but do men get paternity leave?
A parent holding a newborn baby in the hospital room

When a woman finds out she is pregnant, part of the initial planning is figuring out maternity leave, from when it will start to how long it will be. While we immediately think of the time the mom will take off work for the baby, what about the dad? Do men get paternity leave? Here's what you need to understand about dads taking time off work for the birth of a child.
If men get paternity leave, here's how they can take it

There are a few options for the dad to take time off work for the birth of a baby, and it's all pretty similar to how a mother would take maternity leave. There are types of leave dads can't take since they aren't the ones having the medical procedure or going through the actual birth, but there are some workarounds.
Take FMLA
FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) allows mothers, fathers, and non-birthing parents to take up to 12 weeks off work to care for a new child. The time off is unpaid, but your position will be there for you when you return. There are rules and stipulations to use FMLA depending on where you work and for how long, and you may not qualify to use it under certain conditions, so talk to your employer as soon as you find out your partner is pregnant to know your options. FMLA is amazing if you qualify, but please remember it is unpaid. 
Use your PTO and vacation time
Another way to take some time off (and still get paid for it) is to use your PTO and vacation time. The second you know your partner is pregnant, start saving up your time. Talk with your HR department to see how much time off you can stack together and see if they will work with you on how to best use your time. If you can't use it all at once, see about peppering days off throughout the week to get you down to only working one to three days a week so you can still be home quite a bit.
Use unpaid time
Another option is to talk to your HR department about unpaid time off. Depending on how long you have been with the company, you could be entitled to an extended unpaid leave or a sabbatical, or your work will let you take time off for certain things like a medical issue or the birth of a child. This is another unpaid way to take time off, so you need to plan appropriately. 
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You aren't prepared for how much a baby cries
Your baby is going to cry a lot. You need to find a soothing way to deal with the noise. Even "easy babies" cry when they're tired, wet, and hungry. It's a lot of crying and most first-time moms are not prepared for how much a baby cries and how easily the noise can get to you. We suggest a lot of classical music.
Hold your baby as much as you want
You cannot spoil a baby. If you want to hold your child every second they are awake, do it. Your child will grow up so quickly, and picking up a teenager who is taller than you gets a bit harder to do whenever you want. Make sure you stretch and lift with your legs if you try to pick up your teenager.

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